Sunday, April 28, 2024

When Joseph Smith Is Attacked

(by Dan Peterson sic et non blog)

On several occasions over the past few years, in various venues — see here, 

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/danpeterson/2022/01/my-list-of-four-basic-books-to-strengthen-faith.html

for example — I’ve published a list of four books that I recommend as a kind of “basic  packet” or “starter kit” for people struggling with their testimonies, and I’ve explained that I think it important to preemptively strengthen faith as well as to defensively fend off attacks, criticisms, or doubts.

Let me explain a little bit of what I have in mind:

Suppose that, one day, you hear a shockingly negative report about someone.  What effect will the report have upon your opinion of that person?

Phrased in such a way, the question is essentially unanswerable.  Why?  Because it matters very, very much whether you’ve had any other prior experience with, or knowledge about, the person in question, and, if so, what kind of experience or knowledge that was.

Suppose that this report is the first thing you’ve ever heard about him.  In that case, the report will almost inevitably color your opinion of him in a fundamental way, because it’s the only “color” you have for him, the only information that you possess about him.

Suppose, as an alternative scenario, that you’ve known him to be a bad sort for a very long time.  You’re not surprised to hear this latest account and, even if it adds details, it fits right into the overall picture of him that you’ve already had in your mind for years.  It won’t require a lot of additional evidence — if, indeed, it requires any further evidence at all — to persuade you that the report is true.  The new account doesn’t fundamentally transform your opinion of the person, but it does reinforce your pre-existing opinion.

Now suppose, instead, that this person has been a friend of yours for several decades.  You’ve always known him to be good, honorable, reliable, and kind.  The report that you’ve just heard about him simply doesn’t fit with the man you know, doesn’t seem consistent with his character as you’ve observed it over the years.  You don’t necessarily pronounce the report a lie, but you’re certainly more inclined to withhold judgment, to give him the benefit of the doubt, to suspend your verdict until you can get his side of the story.  It’s going to take quite a bit of solid evidence to persuade you to revise your long-standing opinion of your friend.

Now, I think that this parable, if you will, can be applied to both Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon.

If someone runs into an argument against the Book of Mormon, the weight that she is going to give to that argument will depend, to a significant degree, upon her general evaluation of the Book of Mormon.  If she’s studied it and found it rich with spiritual treasures, she’ll be more inclined to minimize the argument’s force than if she doesn’t know the Book of Mormon very well and doesn’t value it, let alone if she already holds the book in contempt or derision.  But she will also be more resistant to this argument against the Book of Mormon, in my view, if, having read Richard Anderson’s Investigating the Book of Mormon Witnesses, she is persuaded that the Witnesses were telling the truth about the plates and the angel and the confirming voice of God.  And, likewise, if she’s read Grant Hardy’s Understanding the Book of Mormon and is convinced that Nephi, Mormon, and Moroni were distinct historical individuals, it’s going to be much more difficult for her to be won over to the view that Joseph Smith just made the whole thing up, including them.

In a similar fashion, imagine that a Church member runs into claims about Joseph Smith and early Latter-day Saint plural marriage that disturb him.  (This rather murky topic is, perhaps, the single most difficult, most challenging, Latter-day Saint historical issue.)

There are some excellent scholarly resources on the question — including, for example, Gregory L. Smith’s review “George Smith’s Nauvoo Polygamy,” in the now defunct FARMS Review 20/2 (2008): 37-123 (still available online at https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1743&context=msr), and the anthology, edited by Newell G. Bringhurst and Craig L. Foster, entitled The Persistence of Polygamy: Joseph Smith and the Origins of Mormon Polygamy.  (I find three essays — Don Bradley, “Mormon Polygamy before Nauvoo? The Relationship of Joseph Smith and Fanny Alger”; Brian C. Hales, “Joseph Smith and the Puzzlement of ‘Polyandry,’”; and Craig L. Foster, David Keller, and Gregory L. Smith, “The Age of Joseph Smith’s Plural Wives in Social and Demographic Context” — especially useful.)  Brian Hales’s website, Joseph Smith’s Polygamy, is indispensable.

But the nature of the sources is such that it probably isn’t enough merely to fight a rearguard action on this issue — particularly in our society, which tends, for very good reason, to be deeply cynical about sexual matters and very aware of hypocrisy concerning them.  We’ve seen far too many philandering preachers, far too many hypocritical “family values” politicians.  What needs to be done is to examine carefully the question of Joseph Smith’s general character.  Is he the kind of man who, when difficult and seemingly irresolvable issues arise, should be given the benefit of the doubt?

The late Mark McConkie’s impressive collection of eyewitness testimonials (Remembering Joseph: Personal Recollections of Those Who Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith) argues powerfully that he was a good, honorable, reliable, and kind man whose character does, indeed, merit that kind of trust.  And John Welch’s anthology of articles (Opening the Heavens: Accounts of Divine Manifestations, 1820-1844), along with the Anderson and Hardy books, supplies strong evidence that he did genuinely receive divine revelation.

Believers who have been armed by such readings will, in my opinion, likely be far less easily thrown into doubt regarding Joseph Smith than believers who are unfamiliar with such material.  Of course, it should go without saying that the most fundamentally important armament is the Spirit, which accompanies faithful reading of the scriptures, sincere and regular prayer, and obedience to the commandments of God.

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/danpeterson/2024/04/when-joseph-smith-is-attacked.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR0CSfk_GBwnmwmF1kVmS0zsaDricNw4XP6epiarYC8s3pdb13IKoxWqQ2o_aem_AfgLA38EWggOmDHHI8ITh-Ik3ueGsnFD7PcwP8KwZzYKejeBO4BZY6Bfn3cuwTtU1abJYptclhTT8QVmopKAgfV3

Former NFL and Notre Dame star shares how he found hope after public humiliation and depression


(ldsliving.com 3-1-24)

In 2012, Manti Te’o was the victim of a high-profile catfishing incident. For almost a year, he thought he was in a relationship with a woman he had only texted and spoken with on the phone. He one day received news that this woman had died. But months later, he received a call from the allegedly deceased girlfriend—and realized the relationship wasn’t what he thought.

The media soon uncovered and released a report that Manti’s “girlfriend,” Lennay Kukua, was actually an online persona invented by Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, who now goes by Naya, to exchange text messages and calls with Manti.

Manti was widely ridiculed as the target of an elaborate hoax, becoming the subject of countless memes and jokes. Although he was one of three finalists for the 2012 Heisman Trophy and had one of the most decorated college football careers in National Collegiate Athletic Association history, his athletic accomplishments were often overshadowed by controversies surrounding the scam.

Manti recently spoke to Morgan Pearson on the All In podcast about his experience, reflecting on how his faith in Jesus Christ has allowed him to find forgiveness and renewed purpose after the public humiliation.

At first, he questioned why his willingness to try to do what’s right and see the best in others led to being catfished. “I was the first one to stick my hand out there when somebody needed my help,” Manti says. “It was just something that I couldn’t stop because I knew the impact that I could have on somebody. And it got me in trouble.”

Grappling with these questions and the hurt he felt brought him to a dark place. But ultimately, rock bottom helped him find a firm foundation in Christ:

“In a society where a lot of people feel alone, … I’ve been there. I know how that feels. And because I know how that feels, I also know that there is one person who understands exactly how I feel.

“And it was the Savior Himself when He went to that garden, and He took upon Himself, not only the sins of the world, … [but also] felt every depression, every pain—whether it be physical, mental, emotional, spiritual—He felt it all.”

This testimony has allowed Manti to guide others to Christ in their darkest moments. As he has shared his story, most recently in the Netflix documentary Untold: The Girlfriend Who Didn’t Exist, many people across the globe have contacted him to thank him for turning them to God.

“If that’s the type of impact that this [trial] has, then I’m grateful for it,” Manti shared on the podcast.

And while he played in the National Football League until 2021, Manti says he’s playing a different game now—helping people know they’re not alone in their struggles.

“Because I’ve experienced that full spectrum [of experiences], I can relate to a lot of people in different times of their lives,” Manti says. “I’ve seen the summit of what this world can offer, … but then I’ve also experienced the fall …. I know what depression feels like. I know what it feels like to have those thoughts in your head of like, ‘Man, why am I even here?’”

Moving through trials or depression sometimes feels like playing offense against the devil, but with God as His coach, Manti knows that good ultimately overcomes evil. “I know what team I’m playing for, and because I know what team I’m on, I know that [the devil has] no power over me.”

In the wake of the catfishing scandal, there were times when he felt like staying in a dark room all day. But he tried to focus on taking just one step forward—even half a step—with God’s help.

To those struggling with depression, Manti recommends:

“Sometimes all you have is a step. When you're going through those dark days where you’re battling those demons inside, sometimes the best thing to do is just sitting up and getting up.”

Manti’s sister reminded him that moving through trials is an opportunity to metaphorically walk through Gethsemane with Christ—and help walk with others through their personal Gethsemanes as well.

As President Jeffrey R. Holland has taught, “Because Jesus walked such a long, lonely path utterly alone, we do not have to do so.”

This perspective has allowed Manti to let go, finding healing through forgiveness. “My life has benefited tremendously from being able to forgive—and to forgive not only the person that did it to me but to also forgive myself,” he says. “I really followed what the Savior would have done, and I know what the Savior has done.”

https://www.ldsliving.com/former-nfl-and-notre-dame-star-shares-how-he-found-hope-through-public-humiliation-and-depression/s/12063

Coach Andy Reid says he never misses sacrament meeting, even helped bless a baby hours before Super Bowl win

(ldsliving.com 4-17-24)

On an episode of the All In podcast, Coach Andy Reid of the Kansas City Chiefs was asked how he approaches Sabbath Day worship.

“We’re never missing sacrament one way or another,” Coach Reid replied. “We’ve always had phenomenal bishops since I’ve been in this crazy NFL thing that have been willing to work with us. … We run up to church, if we have an afternoon game or a night game, … [or] if not, then we do a sacrament meeting amongst ourselves with the permission of our bishops. … It might [only] be with three people or four people, but we’re going to make the thing work.”

One of the people who regularly joins Coach Reid for sacrament meeting is the assistant running backs coach, Porter Ellett. A fellow Latter-day Saint, Porter has been with the Chief since 2017.

LDS Living recently spoke with Porter’s wife, Carlie Ellett, about what it means to them to work with a coach who shares their faith. When Porter first took the job, Carlie was concerned about how often he would need to work on Sundays. But Coach Reid’s commitment to the sacrament changed everything.

“To have somebody that Porter can perform the sacrament with and partake with was a giant spiritual stress reliever. This way, our whole family doesn't get to take it together, but the whole family gets to partake. And that’s what’s really important,” Carlie says, noting that, with three young children, she doesn’t travel to away games (except for the “wives’ trip” when Coach Reid’s wife, Tammy, invites all of the coach’s wives to an away game).

One particularly memorable sacrament meeting was held before Super Bowl LVII in 2023 in Arizona. The game was within driving distance to Utah, so many of Porter’s family members and Carlie’s parents were coming. Because Carlie and Porter live in Kansas City away from family, they decided to take advantage of so many family members being in town and blessed their new son, Griffin, at the sacrament meeting before the game. The Chiefs went on to win the championship later that day.

Coach Reid participated in the circle blessing the infant, and it definitely wasn’t the first time he and Porter have supported each other spiritually.

“Their family has experienced significant trials during our eight seasons here, and our family has as well,” Carlie says. “And so they kind of have each other’s [backs].”

For example, Coach Reid was once taken to the hospital right after a game due to a health scare. He asked Porter and Carlie to meet him at the hospital so that Porter could give the coach a priesthood blessing. Over the years, other Latter-day Saint players and coaches (including Dan Sorenson, Matt Bushman, Devin Woodhouse, and Zayne Anderson) have also participated in blessings.

Porter and Coach Reid strive to be an example of their faith to other staff and players. Carlie says that one player that has asked a lot of questions is star quarterback Patrick Mahomes.

“He’s been really interested in it—not that he’s going to join, he’s not interested in that way, he’s just a curious person. He’s always up for learning about it,” Carlie says.

In his All In episode, Coach Reid says he tries to lead by example when it comes to both life and faith.

“We try the best we can to lead by example, [and] leading by example means that you’re following Christ’s teachings,” Coach Reid says. Later adding, “We’ve been blessed with that game plan to get us through our earth life. And so I bank on that a lot. And Jesus Christ is the main character in the scene. He’s a great person to learn from.”

https://www.ldsliving.com/coach-andy-reid-says-he-never-misses-sacrament-meeting-even-helped-bless-a-baby-hours-before-super-bowl-win/s/12170